Are you a cougar? I remember some awesome sex I had earlier in my life with cougars, though they weren't called that at the time. It was exceptionally educational and hot. I've loved older women ever since.

My first cougar was a 26-year-old friend I had in college. I was 19 and we went to different universities in the same city. She was awesome in bed and gave a mean BJ. She was smart and almost intellectual, philosophic, horny. She had a large hairy vagina with fleshy labia and a big clit, and killer red lips with white teeth that could smile ear to ear.

She was an original cougar FWB. She'd come over to my apartment so I could help her with her math homework and projects, and then she'd spend the night. She'd bring the wine and candles, I had the incense and music. We'd study for awhile and then prepare a great meal together. Then we'd eat it slowly and discuss our lives, followed by a bubble bath with laughter and nakedness. Then she'd teach me things. We'd discover each other's sensuality together over the course of several hours: slow exploration of our bodies; delaying orgasms by stopping at the brink and bringing the heat back down; coming repeatedly; eliciting her ejaculate as she'd lose her mind in lust; laughing and talking about God, life, and Led Zeppelin.

It brings to mind the Bob Seger lyric from the song Night Moves: "I used her, she used me, but neither one cared; we were gettin' our share."

So what are your hot cougar stories, whither the cougar or the cub?

i'm not a cougar
question: am i making some ridiculous generalisation(sp?) or were people more sensual and philosophical in the 60's and 70's?

i'm asking because i kind of get that impression but i don't know because i'm 26 and wasn't alive then.

ps my bf has some hot cougar stories but i can't tell you those, sorry.

I don't know if people were more philosophical and sensual then. My story is from the early 80's and she wasn't technically a cougar by today's definition (usually over 40), but to me she certainly was. We were definitely sensuous.

I have other cougar stories from later on before I met my wife. One hot bartender I helped tend bar at a friend's wedding comes to mind...

Saddly, I don't have any juicy cougar stories.

I think things were different in the 1960s and 1970s. There was the so called "sexual revolution" and "free sex" which many young people embraced, probably as much to piss off their parents as for the sex.

Although we had gonorrhea, syphilis, Chlamydia, and herpes to content with, we did not yet know about HIV and AIDS.

There were a lot of people running around having sex for sex's sake because it was the cool thing to do. It was good for some and bad for others. I had a couple of female partners who had gone through some wild years and had had hundreds of partners who then came to realize that their complete lack of discrimination had wrecked one or two potentially great relationships and cheapened the whole sexual experience for themselves.

I think cougars have a completely different attitude. It's Sport Fucking, plain and simple.

Well now, that word made it through the sensor software...