I don't care that he transfered old pictures from 1 computer to another and hasn't deleted any old ones. That doesn't really bother me. What upsets me is that he saved her pretty current profile picture of her in a bikini. Should I be upset. It's only a picture, but it hurts my heart a little. Should I just get over it or say something to him?

This post seems rather incomplete. Did you give the backstory on this somewhere else?

Trying to make sense of what you're saying... your boyfriend (or husband?) transferred old pictures (were they all pictures of his ex, or were they just general pictures?) to another computer. Did he get a new computer, and is that why he was transferring them?

And where is this profile picture of her from? Facebook, Myspace, something like that? Did he save it on his own Facebook or Myspace page, or is it part of a photo album he has on his computer?

We need a lot more detail to understand what's going on here.

Sorry... My bf of 5 years (living together). He got a new computer and transferred all of his files onto the new computer. There were many pictures saved in his picture file of him and her on there and I didn't really care cause they were from before me. Then I noticed a recent myspace profile picture of her saved in his pictures. For some reason that annoyed me.

Do you know for certain that the picture is a recent one? It's possible (unless you know otherwise) that he already had that picture in his collection, and she only recently started using her copy as a profile pic. If you know it's her Myspace profile photo, I'm assuming you've seen her Myspace page.

This would upset me. I'd have to say something.

If you two have been together for 5 years and living together and he keeps saving current updated pictures from her social networking sites.. Yeah, it'd be time for a talk.

I would be upset as well. Five years is a long time and I highly doubt (maybe im wrong) that she would use a picture older than five years of herself anyways, its probably a recent one.

It could just be that he likes the pic of her and saved it. Nothing more, nothing less.

You know him best, but you should confront him about it since its bothering you.

Just ask him about it, otherwise it'll niggle away at you. You probably know him well enough by now to gauge from his reaction whether it's anything to worry about.