this question goes to women only pls?
girth is more important than lenght, we all know that.
how big the girth should be (in inches)to have enough pleasure.
such as 4,5"-4,75"-5,00"-5,25"-5,5" and so on

I've noticed that there are a lot more questions about penis size than breast size. Does that mean that men are even more insecure than women?

I'm curious, what size do women prefer in a man's lips - both length and fullness. When a man's lips are too thin, does it ruin the kiss? Can a man's mouth be too big for french kissing? Doesn't your tongue get all lost in there?

Let's get down to the really important stuff.

Full head of hair or comes his hair with a washcloth?

What about her hair? Long or short? Straight or curly?

Eye color ...?

And, most important of all - what about those knee caps?

After all, its not really the human being that we care about, right?

I don't think that either my current SO nor any woman who's been with me even knows my girth, and that's probably typical for most women. So, I don't know how many women you're going to get to answer such a technical question.

I'm thinking Zack11 is actually Masha32 under a new name.

we do not measure a guy! do u think we bring a measuring tape to bed with us and secretly measure you? my god....as long as it aint like a pencil its fine!

Lacuna, im thinkin the same thing.

Ok the lips question was probably a joke but just in case there is a poor thin-lipped guy not getting any out there in cyber land because he has deep-rooted feelings of lip anxiety, I would like to answer.

No, lip size doesn't necessarily have to impact kiss quality. My BF has very thin lips and many of my exes had pillow lips, and honestly I cannot tell the difference, because of his kissing skills. He makes them seem soft and full somehow. It's great.

Some do measure-see the thread 'do women measure?'

xxl

I don't care. Really I don't. The vagina tends to adjust to the size of the penis, and providing women do their pelvic floor excersises, being "loose" and unable to feel them shouldn't be a problem. It's got absolutely nothing to do with size for me AT ALL. It's how it's used. It's how the WHOLE package is used.

Even as a self confessed size queen I like variety. There is no absolute answer for all women. I can enjoy several different sizes within one session. Each has its own appeal.

Okay,,,, "Size isn't important as long as it'ts not pencil thin." And thus begins the contradiction!

Yes, men are more insecure than women because breast size is obvious to the world whereas a man's penis size is only truly known by himeself and a very few others.

Women will make fun of men being insecure about penis size, and then not understand why we are insecure, and in the meantime, not give a straight honest answer in a forum created by women for open and honest discussions about sexuality issues that humans have troubles with.

And the icing on the cake is size is not important "as long as it's not pencil thin." So if it is pencil thin, a man is in trouble?!?

How big is not "pencil thin?'

I hope I've made my point. Thank you

Gross is a pencil thin penis even possible? I think I would scream and hide.

Ok seriously I would love to answer for real, but I have never ever measured girth. I just eyeball it to know whether I consider it fat, average, or thin. I couldn't even compare it to fingers because fingers are all so different.

Most dildos are on the very large size. That big is certainly not necessary nor always appreciated. Maybe too thin, is the size of a roll of dimes, and thin is a roll of quarters. Then again it's been a while since I've seen a roll of US currency.

i have been told that my penis girth(4.75") was skinny by a former girlfriend. my lenght longer than average 6.5". but girth is more important than lenght we all know that.

Fat or skinny is very subjective, depending on previous experience, feeling etc. Hence that doesn't actually make yours skinny, only perhaps relative to her previous lover/s. My gf had a previous partner with a girth in excess of 7 inches but she had also had enough partners to know thats not normal for most of us. 4.75 inch girth is far more common.

Zack and Ian brought up interesting points. While women are always trying to soothe us men and our fragile egos by insisting that size doesn't matter, they always finish the thought by "reassuring" us that it's not length that really counts anyways it's thickness (girth).

Well, here is a question/thread about girth. I would've thought that there would be more female replies on this subject.

Size Does Matter!!
At least this is how I feel about it as a woman but we ladys tend to be more shy in expressing our own fantasies and desires and that's why we can professionally fake orgasms.!!
As tassiedevil1977 said we buy the whole package and we look to the penis as part of the whole package..........that's when we love someone or marry someone but if we have a choice we or at least me I will bring my tape measure with me and check his cock size before buying the package.Lol
Let's be honest.....women always fantasize about a decent size cock but of course not a pencil size cock and the majority like the Girth more than the length of the penis.I prefer to have both the girth and length to be in good size.Now if you ask me what is the size I like I will say it should be above 7-8" so for me I consider any penis 6" and less unsatisfactory!!Sure as nimue
said a woman can be pleasured by a finger but that enjoyment is external and it focus on the clitoris not intra-vaginal and although the vagina can accommodate any penis size but in order to have the maximum sexual satisfaction,there should be a thicker and decently longer penis to fill the walls of the vagina!! So for me Yes..........Size Does Matter.

doesn't matter to me. I'd hate for someone to fall in love with me and oogle and want bigger boobs. What you see is what you get...I'm very accomodating to my surroundings.

he just better be a wild one in the sack...or see ya....

Just remember when most people talk about girth, they're measuring circumference, not diameter - big difference. Don't short-change your DH, LOL!

I agree with you goldnear.......many people mix between diameter and circumference and by the way many guys don't know how to measure their penises either!!
As a woman who has some experience I think as a basic role......using thumb and index on any dick will tell me how thick it is but some use their basic instict to tell the size of a dick.I also use my mouth as a measurement tape and I can tell the girth of any dick using my lips alone.LOL

Right now I'm not dating anyone and would love a penis. Any penis. A 'short pencil' with a great guy attached to it with a sexy mind and nice sensual lips would be just fine with me.

I have fantasy-guy penis preference (big, black and hot). I have, in reality, been with a number of men having a variety of shapes and sizes. Some of the hardest working lovers (and most satisfying) have had average and slightly below-average sized cocks. I've been with some men who were very long and thick and they didn't try all that hard. Who knows.

Very few people are perfect. Most folks probably have their 'ideal' fantasy person but in real life may fall head over heels for someone very different from the ideal.

Guys, the penis is a beautiful, delicious thing and no matter what the size is, it's all good. (At least in my humble opinion)

Excuse me, would you like to have dinner with me?

Um, can you drop your pants first? Gotta check out the package.

LOL, yeah, it's basic geometry. Not sure if your comments are directed at me, but if so, you're talking to someone who memorized pi, 2pi, and pi squared 20 years ago:

3.14159265
6.2831853
9.8696075

Gotta love photographic memories.

@uksexymona
so 4.75" in girth is enought to give satisfaction to a woman? how big is good that's all I want to know. that's why i have started this topic.
when you ladies say thick or fat,or thicker or fatter cock, how big is that.

any other ladies want to make a comment?

Zack, as you can probably gather from the replies here, 4.75 inches girth would 'satisfy' most of the women here. You seem to be hung up on this absolute, definitive figure-4.6" not quite adequate, 4.7 is fine, 5 inches 'big' etc. We are not built like that. One day my Bam dildo at 8.5 inches girth feels really nice, another day my bf's thumb is great. Its like asking what item of food do you want to eat for the rest of your life. Actually there is no one food that I would limit myself to. Same with size. That doesn't mean I'm not happy with my bf's cock(which is almost exactly the same size as yours). If you are willing to experiment with toys your size is kind of irrelevant anyway as long as it gives you pleasure.

Zack..........each individual has its own preference and toleration level.For some one a penis of 6" long is considered big enough,for me it is considered small.Some woman feel pain with a penis 8" or 9" and some feel it is perfect size for their vagina.In general 6-7" is considered normal size and anything 5" and less is considered small.Anything above 7" is considered big.
But for some woman including my self I would say that:
6"-7" is small for me
7"-8" is normal size cock for me
8"-9" is big size
9"-10" is Super big
10"-11" is Mandingo!!

For penis girth many women thinks:
4.5-6 is normal
6-7 is big
7-8 super big

But personally I prefer the bigger super size for penis girth as it gives me more fullness inside my vagina.

I would imagine it must be hard to find a satisfactory penis then? What do you do if the guy doesn't measure up? From all I have read a penis over 7 inches in girth is extremely rare.

Simply and honestly I will tell the guy to use my back door opening if his penis is less than what I want and I won't see him again.
No it is not true.......I met many guys with more than 7" in girth.

Well I guess you would have to tell the guy to use your back door because you are so obviously a guy pretending to be a woman. How thick do you think we are?

uksexymona you can not be serious!
is nettie right about you?


7" in girth!!!!!!!!!!
has any1 seen (including in blue movies).
I have never seen it in porn movies

I think it was on the 'do women measure' thread that Dawn said her SO has a girth of 7". I have had two partners who were about that and I have slept with over 100 guys. You would have to have been with an awful lot of guys to have had 'many' over 7" girth.

From a math point of view, a 2 inch diameter dildo/cock (your SO's playtoy) would only have a girth of 6.28 inches.

And, a girth of 7 inches would have a diameter of almost 2 and a quarter inches. That's pretty wide.

Is it possible that the girth looks bigger than it really is?

what is SO?

I think that if you know how to use it size don't matter rather you are 5 or 12 on the other hand if you don't know how to use it you better do some tounge exercises

zack11, SO means Significant Other.

I'm pretty sure it's to avoid gender bias.

A woman here isn't necessarily asking questions about her boyfriend. but she will be talking about her SO. Also, we don't have to be wrong guessing either boyfriend, fiancee, or husband. Just... S/O.

I have the same opinion as you have. The size of the penis matters for most of the ladies but they feel shy about disclosing their desire to have intercourse with a fat & long dick. A length of 8 inches & 5 inch thickness is ideally required for making a woman see stars.

5" thick! You a freakin' mule or what? Good gravy.

I give it, and she receives it. I'm happy, she's happy. I've never been one to worry in the least about my dick's shape, length, width girth, volume, diameter or metric tonnage. It gives me the deepest kind of pleasure a man can possibly imagine, and I don't get a lot of complaints, what's not to love?