Well, I'm trying to figure out what special/fun thing I could do to make the grooms night more special! I put it in quotations because this isn't going to be your typical party at ALL-- first, as you may have noticed, it's a mix of his close friends which are men and women. He's not the typical guy so there isn't going to be strippers or anything like that...basically, it's just going to be a small gathering of this Saturday night and we're going to drink a ton, go out to a nice dinner in the city, drink some more, and generally just hang out together since we all haven't seen each other in a looong while! My friend, D, is even closer friends with the groom and is putting together this little shindig-- she's the one who picked the date, emailed everyone, made the dinner resevations, inviting everyone to her apt. to drink and stay over- etc etc...pretty much has the reigns..not to mention she'll be helping out at the wedding. Because I live a ways away [2 hr 30mins] I feel like a total LOSER that I haven't actively been in the loop/helping out. I told D I would be happy to bring breakfast for the next morning, or booze, and help her run errands-- I also plan on bringing her a "thanks for setting this all up"/hostess gift. BUT-- I'd like to plan something myself a little special for the night ontop of everything she's done...nothing too crazy but something that will fit into out eating and drinking and merriment binging. LOL. I really need suggestions because I'm stumped! I thought maybe I'd bring champagne but that seems a little ho-hum boring and uninspired...I want SPECIAL! Any ideas???