Okay, so we're not getting married until June 2012, but we have the usual dilemna of who to invite. Both my parents are remarried, and so I have many step relatives. I do not want my step mums siblings/nephews etc, they are nice don't get me wrong, but I have NO r.ship with them. And in my view you should have people that are important to both of you. My Mum is insisting that my step dad's sister and hubby come, again I have no relationship with them, but she's my Dad's only sister. And then there's the biological cousins, I want some, but not others. Arghhh! What would and did you do?