I have a really embarrassing issue and i would love to know if there are others like me out there. I have never been able to orgasm with my boyfriend and we have been together for over 2 years. I can orgasm perfectly fine by myself but just not with him. Also, sometimes when i masturbate by myself i start relaxing and then 9 times out of 10 i will pass wind. During masturbation i also squirt quite a lot. I always go to the bathroom beforehand but it still happens. I would really love to be able to orgasm with my boyfriend but i am so afraid of passing wind or squirting that i tense up and hold back. Then i get frustrated that it is taking so long and i feel embarrassed for my boyfriend that i make him stop or i almost force the orgasm to come on which of course never happens. I really wish these things wouldnt happen because i am so afraid of something happening when i get going such as peeing myself, passing wind or god forbid the bowel movement!!!!! Does this happen to anyone else and how can i finally orgasm with my boyfriend? Please help.